Energetically Being

Unlock Your Potential: Embody the Energy You Admire

Drawn to someone's "aura"? It's your soul's message! Join Jason & Jana Banana to discover how the qualities you admire reflect your own untapped potential. Learn to "try on" their energy, break through limitations, and create a reality aligned with your desires. Believe it's possible, lean into those feelings, and step into your most authentic, vibrant self. It's time to embody the energy you crave and live even luckier!

Here’s what you’ll discover:

• The Soul's Longing: Why You're Drawn to Certain Energies: Understand that admiration reflects your inner desires.
• Beyond the Surface: Recognizing Energetic Frequencies: Learn to identify the "aura" that captivates you.
• Your Untapped Potential: Seeing Yourself in Those You Admire: Discover that admired qualities are often dormant within you.
• Breaking the Barriers: Challenging Beliefs of Unavailability: Understand how to dismantle self-imposed limitations.
• "Trying On" Energy: A Powerful Tool for Transformation: Learn to consciously embody desired feelings and traits.
• The Magnetic Power of Belief: How Expectation Shapes Reality: Discover how believing in possibility attracts it.
• Leaning In: Cultivating the Feelings You Crave: Learn to actively choose and embody desired emotional states.
• From Limitation to Expansion: Making Your Old Ceiling Your New Floor: Understand how to break through previous barriers.

• What you admire in others is a clue to your own potential.
• The "aura" you're drawn to is an energetic frequency you can embody.
• Believing something is possible creates a magnetic environment.
• "Trying on" a new energetic persona can lead to real change.
• You're naturally drawn to energies that resonate with your soul's desires.

How to embody the qualities you admire. What does it mean to be energetically aligned? How to increase your personal energy.

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*Previously Recorded

Chapters

• 0:00 Creating a Life You Crave
• 1:36 Admiring Others: It's About Energy
• 5:27 Danny and Sandy: Chemistry and Fun
• 8:20 We're Attracted to Who We Want to Be
• 10:40 Trying On New Personas and Beliefs
• 14:20 Embracing Your Energy and Living Lucky

Transcript

Jana Shelfer: 0:00

Are you ready to create a life you crave? Let's spin that doom loop of negativity into an upward success cycle and start Living Lucky®. Good morning, I'm Jana, I'm Jason and we are Living Lucky®. You are too. Have you ever had someone you truly admire? I know, growing up, my mom always admired Jacqueline Kennedy and I always said mom, what is it that you like about her? And she was like I don't know, she just has this aura about her.

Jason Shelfer: 0:38

That's so aura. When you say aura, that kind of encapsulated all the things that I was thinking, that would have been wanted to be emulated.

Jana Shelfer: 0:47

Okay. But people don't realize I mean most people when they say, oh, I wish I were more like. And then they'll say, blah, blah, blah. Yes, what they think is all of these outward characteristics. They think, oh, I wish I looked like so-and-so, I wish I was thin like so-and-so I wish I was had the confidence of so-and-so.

Jana Shelfer: 1:11

I wish I was funny like so-and-so, I wish I blah, blah, blah, like so-and-so. And I'm telling you, jason, and I have found this I don't know if it's a hack or if we have just realized when you find someone that you want to emulate or that has really inspired your soul, what your soul is saying is they are tuned into a frequency, they are tuned into a feeling that your soul wants to feel.

Jason Shelfer: 1:45

Yeah, how do I create more of that feeling, that frequency? That energetic, that energy of being, and in my own life, Like that's a, it feels like a spice that's missing from the meal of my life, and so really, when we get down to it, it really is as simple as that. Like how do I just add a little?

Jana Shelfer: 2:09

bit more of this spice to my life. Instead, our mind starts playing these tricks like oh my gosh, I'll never be.

Jason Shelfer: 2:16

You know, I'll never have the same face as so-and-so, I don't have the availability to get that spice. Right Like that spice isn't out there. For me it is, though, and that's that's the thing is.

Jana Shelfer: 2:27

Because it really is tuning into a feeling and choosing to embody that energy.

Jason Shelfer: 2:34

And the first thing, I think, is believing that, choosing the thought that it is available instead of the thought that it's not available.

Jana Shelfer: 2:42

So for you, who, who or what like? Who is it that you aspire to be like?

Jason Shelfer: 2:50

So I so there's a. This is a complicated question for me because of the amount of personal development that I've done over the years. So the person I really aspire to be like is the best version of myself. Okay, that's good, and the reason that is is because I've opened myself up to the possibility that everything is available, anything is available, and all I have to do is lean into that energetic feeling of it and I will create almost like a magnet environment that brings it to me.

Jason Shelfer: 3:20

Because I've seen that over and over and over again in my life.

Jana Shelfer: 3:23

You've done too much self-development. So I'll step in here. I'm going to say Danny and Sandy.

Jason Shelfer: 3:31

Oh, that's fun, Danny, and.

Jana Shelfer: 3:32

Sandy from Grease.

Jason Shelfer: 3:33

There's a fun energy there.

Jana Shelfer: 3:34

I look at them and it doesn't matter how many times I watch the movie. Now I know, if you are a regular listener of our podcast, you're going to be like stop with the Grease. A regular listener of our podcast, you're going to be like stop with the grease. I'm so over you guys talking about grease. But I just love Danny and Sandy. I love the chemistry that they have together. I love the way I feel. I love the way I feel when I watch Danny and Sandy.

Jason Shelfer: 4:00

Yes.

Jana Shelfer: 4:01

Because I can feel them falling in love, I can feel them experiencing newness, I can feel them having fun.

Jason Shelfer: 4:16

Sexual chemistry. I can feel the sexual chemistry.

Jana Shelfer: 4:20

I can feel how they are in sync, the way they dress like one another. I can feel them dancing and I can feel how awkward it is at times, and I can almost feel their hormones raging. I can feel how they're trying to find who they want to be, how they want to both test their limits, how they want to fit in and yet satisfy their own needs.

Jason Shelfer: 4:55

Yeah, and also there's this fun energy, like just the movie itself, where they're breaking out in a song, like when they're kind of working through what they're going through. Yes, I do that.

Jana Shelfer: 5:05

I do too. I go to the backyard and I'm like stranded at the drive-in.

Jason Shelfer: 5:11

Branded a fool. Oh, I love it. What would they say monday at school? Oh, sandy baby, yeah. So there's a lot like I feel I'm feeling it again, just talking about it right, and it's one of those things where, when we get to the end of the movie, are we sad that that feeling is over or are we adding that feeling to our life?

Jana Shelfer: 5:40

I want to add that feeling to my life.

Jason Shelfer: 5:43

And that's exciting.

Jana Shelfer: 5:44

That's why I think that I have signed up for dance lessons and that I force Jason every Thursday to go to dance lessons.

Jason Shelfer: 5:51

Even though I get anxious about it.

Jana Shelfer: 5:54

I feel that feeling when we dance together and I kind of walk out with a ton of swagger and, specifically, as we've started to learn this new dance, you've kind of been getting into it and I think it's because you've been tuning into Danny and Sandy vibes. Oh, I'm sure.

Jason Shelfer: 6:10

Oh yeah, and it's a big thing, because that was 1978 that that came out. I believe and I would have been six years old. I was three and I probably didn't watch it when I was six.

Jana Shelfer: 6:23

I did I remember sitting on my mom's lap at the?

Jason Shelfer: 6:27

theater, sure, until later in life, but there was always that feeling of and this is weird because I told myself I would never dance in public again, but I always like when, the when I was by myself in my room, I would be doing those grease lightning moves, of course, and I would be the chicks who cream. Oh, you're getting lots of dirt when you're stop lightning, stop, stop.

Jana Shelfer: 6:53

I mean, the words are actually quite naughty.

Jason Shelfer: 6:55

They are, and I don't think I realized that until later on. I didn't either.

Jana Shelfer: 6:58

I'm like. Now that I've watched it as an adult many times, I'm like why did my parents let me?

Jason Shelfer: 7:03

watch this? Why would I be able to watch this as a teen or preteen coming into my hormones and stuff, oh, but I will say know there's but, there's something about them the, the, it's, chemistry, it's energy. It is, it is energy. It's the aura that you were talking about. It is energy. It's like what is this aura around this?

Jana Shelfer: 7:27

aura that my mom talked about with jacqueline kennett jack woolen, not jacqueline jack woolen, jack wella kennedy.

Jason Shelfer: 7:34

Yes, and, and I'd be like what with Jacqueline?

Jana Shelfer: 7:36

Kennedy, jacqueline.

Jason Shelfer: 7:37

Not Jacqueline, jacqueline.

Jana Shelfer: 7:37

Jacqueline Kennedy. Yes, and I'd be like what is it that you like about her? Is it her hair? That's what I would.

Jason Shelfer: 7:41

I would always be like is it her hair? Is it her handbags? Yeah, Is it her style Is it, those outfits that she wears?

Jana Shelfer: 7:48

Yeah, because that's what magazines magazines are always like she's got style, it's panache. That's such a great word.

Jason Shelfer: 7:57

Panache.

Jana Shelfer: 7:59

And my mom would say, no, it's her aura.

Jason Shelfer: 8:03

And it is.

Jana Shelfer: 8:04

She conveys confidence like energy swagger, Jacqueline Kennedy, I think, was Living Lucky®. Now here's a secret that most people don't know we are attracted to people that we are like, or people we want to be like.

Jason Shelfer: 8:23

That's so big.

Jana Shelfer: 8:25

That is huge. We are attracted to people we want to be like. So, if you think of, why is my mom attracted to Jacqueline, jacqueline.

Jason Shelfer: 8:40

Jacqueline.

Jana Shelfer: 8:42

Kennedy. It's either. She is like Jacqueline, which, if you look at my mom, she's very much like her. She is very much like Jacqueline Kennedy.

Jason Shelfer: 8:54

And there's still things to be like.

Jana Shelfer: 8:55

In my mom's mind. In my mom's mind she says I just want to be like Jacqueline Kennedy.

Jason Shelfer: 9:06

In my mom's mind she is nowhere like Jacqueline Kennedy, and that's one of those things where, if you start recognizing it in yourself and start just leaning into that energetic feeling, you will become that. But you also have to say you have to accept it, and I think that's one of those things where I feel like I sometimes will accept it too quickly if that makes sense it's like I will believe it because I was like.

Jason Shelfer: 9:37

I see it every day, like I do see the evidence. But sometimes I give my. I will admit I give myself more credit than the movement that I make sometimes. But that energy lends itself to making my old ceiling my new floor in that becomingness.

Jana Shelfer: 9:58

Okay, I can see where you're at. Sometimes there's a delusional confidence there?

Jason Shelfer: 10:04

I think so, and I will crash and burn sometimes.

Jana Shelfer: 10:09

It's kind of endearing, though I would say it's very endearing.

Jason Shelfer: 10:13

I will say it's made my life more fun and more exciting. It's very kid-like?

Jana Shelfer: 10:18

I think yes, it's very playful, like a four-year-old in a Superman cape.

Jason Shelfer: 10:22

It really is.

Jana Shelfer: 10:24

Jason will get off the soccer field and be like I was awesome. And we're all sitting on the sidelines going. Did he just play the same game?

Jason Shelfer: 10:32

we were watching.

Jana Shelfer: 10:34

He didn't see what we saw. He went to the wrong goal, but nobody's going to tell him that, because he's on top of the world right now.

Jason Shelfer: 10:43

Well, and so there's a different aura that I'm presenting and I love that. Like I look at your mom and her eloquence, her fashion sense, like her energy. When she's out around people she kind of holds court, she does. And you would look at her and go that's very Jacqueline Kennedy-esque Right Right, which is just, it's kind of perfect, but it's accepting your new reality and accepting yourself. How other people might see you.

Jana Shelfer: 11:15

Okay, so Danny and Sandy.

Jason Shelfer: 11:17

Yeah.

Jana Shelfer: 11:18

Let's tune into that energy.

Jason Shelfer: 11:20

Yeah, and I can see where your mom thinks that she's not there yet. That's how I feel when I'm dancing. Really, those are some of the things that I'm telling myself.

Jana Shelfer: 11:34

So that's the opposite of me on the soccer field.

Jason Shelfer: 11:36

And see, I don't feel Sandy-esque either, but our instructor is like, and all the other instructors and the people that are in there are like oh my God, that was so wonderful Right, and they're like you guys have a connection.

Jana Shelfer: 11:48

They're always like you guys have something special.

Jason Shelfer: 11:51

I love your energy.

Jana Shelfer: 11:52

I love watching you guys on the floor you guys have a lot I feel, I feel so awkward I I don't, because we're looking at something, we're measuring something, we're measuring the thoughts and the feelings that we're having instead of the ones that we're wanting the action oh my gosh.

Jason Shelfer: 12:20

And what's crazy about this is there's a lot of little mind tricks and mind Fs in there that we're always going through in life and choosing the right ones. And because I think dance is so new to me and it's awkward, and I've also had this belief for such a long time that I'm a shitty dancer and I will never dance in public.

Jana Shelfer: 12:36

I think you're great.

Jason Shelfer: 12:37

Well, and I keep getting told that and I, a lot of times I just don't accept it. And when I do accept it, I have a lot more fun, I have a lot more energy and I, I get more of it.

Jana Shelfer: 12:47

I need to get that Superman mindset.

Jason Shelfer: 12:49

When it comes to dance, I need to pull out my six-year-old and my Superman cape and just actually wear the cape.

Jana Shelfer: 12:55

Maybe we need to do that.

Jason Shelfer: 12:56

It's like Mido man I did that Mido man bit for mitochondrial something?

Jana Shelfer: 13:02

That's what we need to do. We need to make you dance in a cape.

Jason Shelfer: 13:06

I think I should dance in a cape. I deserve it.

Jana Shelfer: 13:09

Okay, you know what? That's what we're going to do. We're going to make you dance.

Jason Shelfer: 13:12

I'm going to start wearing a cape to my dance rehearsals.

Jana Shelfer: 13:14

Wait, in Greece the first angel had a cape. Oh yeah, he did.

Jason Shelfer: 13:21

Why don't I get a leather jacket that can be my cape?

Jana Shelfer: 13:26

I will tell myself this is my cape, that's the cape. We'll get you a leather jacket That'll be your new persona.

Jason Shelfer: 13:34

So it's a symbiotic cape.

Jana Shelfer: 13:36

It's putting on the persona. Yes, trying that on.

Jason Shelfer: 13:41

Trying it on.

Jana Shelfer: 13:42

That's all it is. Just try on a new persona, try on that new feeling.

Jason Shelfer: 13:44

Try on that new aura and see how that feels.

Jana Shelfer: 13:48

And yeah, just become that new persona and then allow it. Allow that new persona to be you.

Jason Shelfer: 13:55

Yeah, I don't have to.

Jana Shelfer: 13:57

I don't actually have to believe that I'm a great dancer, but I could try it on.

Jason Shelfer: 14:00

What would it be like if I believed that was a good dancer?

Jana Shelfer: 14:03

why not just believe it?

Jason Shelfer: 14:04

right. Well, if I try it on, then I can get used to it I think we sometimes fight believing it, because then we're afraid.

Jana Shelfer: 14:12

Oh my God, what if they make fun of us for being a fraudster?

Jason Shelfer: 14:16

What if I'm laughed at again? Yeah. Or having imposter syndrome? Yeah. But who cares? Right? And I think that's where most of my growth has come from in life, not necessarily in dance but in life is saying. What is that feeling that I want? What is that feeling that I see out there and I want to add more of that to my life? Yes, and just leaning in and believing that it's possible.

Jana Shelfer: 14:41

Because it is.

Jason Shelfer: 14:42

That's right.

Jana Shelfer: 14:42

Thanks for joining us.

Jason Shelfer: 14:43

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Jana Shelfer: 14:44

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